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So it isn't a tough read, it's pretty enjoyable. The writing style is also has a fun vibe. They happen, and they don't completely disappear one day by a miracle. They tell it like it is when it comes to mistakes. I liked this authenticity and think it will help guys by making it all more approachable and accessible for the typical guy. But, that it doesn't stop them from getting the success with women they have searched for. You can get a better feel that these guys are just like you, and they've had, and still have their screw ups. I was glad to see that the traditional barrier that Dating Coaches put up of being semi-perfect wasn't here. Many guys will see themselves in these situations. Many of these are screw ups where Rob and Zack learned their lessons. throughout the book he gives you well chosen stories to illustrate points. He builds both him and Zack up at the beginning of the book, and later. Something else that Rob does well in this book is relate to the reader. they have translated that knowledge into a few templates which make it easy to follow. There aren't that many of them, and to be honest it is stuff I and many guys have either known or read about for a long time - but. They get it, and have been able to translate all their experience into practical - short advice.Īn example of the practicality of the book, is the use of 'conversation templates' for you to use. Reading through the book it was obvious to me that these guys have spent a lot of time meeting and dating women. "Oversell everything in you life but nothing about yourself."įor those who have read a lot of dating advice, you'll know that this sums up succinctly a lot of what you've learned and read about communication. At many times he reduces everything down to a simple phrase that helps you to get it all. He manages to make most subjects simple to read and understand. His use of words, and naming of concepts throughout the book have obviously carefully been chosen. Rob, the write of the book, reveals that he is a writer at one point in the book - and this doesn't surprise me. I salute them - it had to be said like this.
#The 4 elements how to
The 4 Elements of Game dedicates the first quarter of the book to inspiring you to focus on drive before everything else, and telling you how to do it. (another word for stepping up and pushing things forward with women).
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They don't put it first, they don't give it the priority it deserves. They said it - in a community of men studying to get better with women - no one talks about the biggest reason for men not getting results. They have kept it to a small number, and they are careful to tackle the most important first. Refreshing for its simplicity and careful prioritization of the things that really matter when you are learning to get better with women.įrom start to finish Rob takes you through the most important things he sees in dating women.